What a session covers: We work with whatever is present, people-pleasing patterns, fear of abandonment, integrating sensuality with self-worth, setting hard boundaries without guilt, or finding purpose that feels aligned. The approach draws on reparenting, shadow integration, and viewing sexual energy as creative life force.
Who it’s for: Anyone ready to move beyond surface self-care into radical self-love and conscious connection. All genders welcome. Especially supportive if you’ve carried shame around desire, past experiences, or performing versions of yourself.
Why work with Cylla
- ICF Professional Certified Coach (PCC), dual certification in Spiritual Life Coaching and Soul Purpose Coaching
- ACOS Certified Sex Educator
- B.A. in Psychology and Sociology, University of Texas at San Antonio
- Texas Certified Educator. Elementary Education, with ESL and Early Childhood certifications
- Ambassador, Hassl global anti-harassment movement
- Author, The D.R.E.A.M. Routine: Manifestation Method
Plus lived experience most coaches don't have: years in swinging, Hotwife, and kink communities, and a career across the adult industry as a performer, producer, director, and studio owner.
Work with me 1-1
All sessions are virtual, and booking runs in two steps. Step 1: pay securely below. The checkout form asks what you want to work on, so I walk in already knowing where to start. Step 2: book your time on my calendar with the links right under the sessions. Packages book one slot per session.
Deep Dive Discovery
Name what's really going on and map your next move. The perfect first step.
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Deep Dive Session
One full session. The conversation you've been avoiding, with someone who's been where you are.
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3-Session Package
Deep, sustained work across three sessions, not a quick fix.
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6-Session Package
The full arc, six sessions for the kind of change that actually holds.
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Step 2 of 2. Payment comes first, on purpose: your checkout form tells me what we're working on before we ever sit down together. Paid above? Now pick your time.
Group experiences
Healing doesn't only happen one-on-one. I also hold space for all genders in group settings, working with tantric concepts, reconnection practices, and every theme I explore on the podcast: boundaries, desire, shame, identity, pleasure, and coming home to yourself.
There's something powerful about doing this work in a room full of people who get it. Join the Bloom community to hear about upcoming groups first, or learn more here.
What clients say
"I spend all day in a hospital where nobody knows the real me. Cylla helped me stop compartmentalizing my life and start accepting who I actually am. My partner and I can talk about everything now. I didn't know that was possible for us."
"I came in skeptical and braced for judgment. Instead I got the first honest conversation my marriage has had in years. We learned how to talk about jealousy without it turning into a fight."
"Dating in this industry is complicated, boundaries get blurry when your work and your relationship overlap. Cylla got it instantly, no explaining needed, and helped us build dynamics that actually work for us."
"I spent years performing the version of womanhood everyone expected of me. Cylla helped me separate my own voice from the noise. I finally know what I actually want."
"I thought needing help meant something was wrong with me. Turns out I just needed someone to help me drop the act. I'm more myself than I've been in a decade."
"Cylla never made my identity the problem to solve. She helped me peel off everyone else's expectations until I could finally hear myself clearly."
"Jealousy was eating us alive and control had quietly replaced trust. She helped us find the real ground underneath, now our dynamic feels chosen, not compulsive."
"We were confused more than anything, excited and terrified at the same time. Cylla gave us language for all of it and helped us find our common ground."
"I came in carrying so much shame about what I wanted. I left understanding myself, and actually liking what I found."
FAQ
How long is a session? Discovery calls are 45 minutes; deep dive sessions and packages are 90 minutes each.
Is this therapy? No. This is coaching focused on self-love, purpose, and intimacy practices. It is not a substitute for licensed mental health care.
What if I’m new to this work? Perfect. We start exactly where you are.